I hate misunderstandings. We couldn't prevent it to happen anyway, we all having different perceptions and personalities in life after all. Maybe when you ask people 1+1=? Some people will answer 2; some people will answer 11. Everyone's understandings are different, that's why so many things happened like World War, break ups, lost contact with best friends and so on. However, misunderstandings could either pull two persons closer to each other or push them apart. Life isn't easy, maybe we have to go through a lot of obstacles to truly understand each other. Misunderstandings couldn't fixed by just some words and actions, for example, Jesus Christ died on the cross for us. He had done so much for us yet some people still thought He is a bad person and wanted Him to die. If someone told you your best friend is a bad person, would you believe?
I've learned that it's useless to explain to someone who committed to misunderstand you. People who truly understand you wouldn't trust rumors easily, they are the ones we should appreciate. There's a point in my life which I feel like I couldn't let go...I always tried my best so that people won't misunderstand me and talk bad behind my back so they will stay with me forever. But that's not true...Some people will still say something about you even you're doing good.
My advice is, just be yourself and go with the flow. Most importantly, don't be the monster they fear you are :)
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